Weddings at Thainstone House in Inverurie


From all the team at Thainstone House, congratulations on your engagement. Whether you've been dreaming of your fairytale wedding for years, or decided that now is your time, we'd be delighted to welcome you to our unique VOWS award-winning venue in Inverurie, 30 minutes outside Aberdeen.

At the bottom of the page, you'll find details about room capacity, availability, testimonials and much more. You can also download our wedding brochure and wedding package guide, and you'll find information about access and accomodation on our amenities and rooms pages.

Please do get in touch with us if you have any questions - we look forward to helping you create your perfect wedding. 

Wedding and Events Team



Historic house, modern weddings

Built in the 18th century, Thainstone House has a rich history as a much-loved family home, grand Aberdeenshire landmark and now a hotel and exclusive wedding venue.

We believe this grand old Palladian mansion house and its grounds offer a stunning location suited to any couple looking for a traditional Scottish wedding venue.

Thainstone House is licensed for civil, religious and humanist ceremonies, which can take place outside on the lawn, or inside in the Ballroom or other smaller rooms. All rooms are large with tall windows throughout, ensuring your special day is one of grandeur and brightness.


Before and after the big day

Drinks receptions are often held by the log fire in the Drawing Room, and our acres of woodland ground provide plenty of opportunities for gorgeous photos of the newlyweds, friends and family.

With advance booking, any of the wedding party can enjoy a spa experience to pamper themselves and relax ahead of the main event. Later, close the night out with a firework display before you retire to one of our elegant accommodation options. For an overnight stay, Thainstone House really is the ideal escape for an intimate wedding. 


Let the bridal party or groomsmen get a feel for the venue - ask about hen and stag do packages. 


  • One wedding per date
  • Exclusive use available
  • Grounds for a marquee
  • Experienced co-ordinator
  • Civil, religious and humanist ceremonies
  • Fireworks permitted

Created for happy couples

Our wedding packages have been created with you in mind and have evolved over the last few years, as a result of listening to our happy couples telling us about the most important elements of their day.

Each package is a fully inclusive wedding experience priced per person, available seven days throughout the year. If you wish to customise your wedding, ‘tailor made’ prices apply to individually create your own package.


Thainstone Classic - Sun-Fri £75 per person; Saturday £85.00 per person

  • Wedding planner to support throughout your arrangements
  • Pre-wedding menu tasting for two
  • Arrival drink from our selector
  • Three course wedding breakfast
  • Two glasses of red, white or rosé wine, pre-selected by our wine sommelier
  • Glass of Prosecco to toast
  • Evening buffet with tea and coffee
  • Silver cake stand and knife
  • Toastmaster services
  • Chair covers and sashes
  • Printed menus and table plan
  • Bridal suite reserved for your wedding night


 Thainstone Deluxe - Sun-Fri £99 per person; Saturday £119.00 per person

  • Wedding planner to support throughout your arrangements
  • Pre-wedding menu tasting for two
  • Celebration glass and a half of Champagne
  • Choice of four canapés from the selector
  • Four course choice wedding breakfast 
  • Half bottle of red, white or rosé wine, pre-selected by our wine sommelier
  • Toast glass of Champagne
  • Evening buffer from selector with tea and coffee
  • Silver cake stand and knife
  • Toastmaster services
  • Chair covers and sashes
  • Printed menus and table planBridal suite reserved for your wedding night
  • First anniversary dinner, bed and breakfast stay


For more information on any of the above packages or to arrange a show round of the venue and grounds, please contact us on 01467 621 6430  or email:   


2020 Inclusive Wedding Package

Available January to April and November to December 2020. Based on 40 wedding guests.

  • A glass of sparling wine on arrival
  • Ballroom ceremony hire
  • Canapés 
  • Three course set menu wedding breakfast
  • A glass of red, white or rosé wine pre-selected by our wine sommelier
  • A glass of party bubbles for the toast
  • Chair covers
  • Printed menus and table plan
  • Silver cake stand and knife
  • Stovies with oatcakes in the evening 
  • Bridal Suite and three complimentary guest bedrooms with Buck's Fizz breakfast reserved on your wedding night



Package is based on a minimum of 40 guests and is subject to availability. Some Bank holiday and seasonal holiday dates may be excluded. Additional all-day adult guests are charged at £50, evening guests and young people under 12 years are priced at £10.

Full Thainstone House wedding terms and conditions apply, and this offer is fully pre-payable at the time of booking with no refunds or transfers.


Experience our wedding offering

Come along to our open events or visit us for a wedding exhibition or open day. Our coordinator will be on hand to show you around and what's on offer. Dates below; if you have specific questions please let us know by emailing


Tuesday open evenings

3rd March, 5-7pm


Open weekend

Saturday 8th & 9th February, 11am-4pm


Wedding exhibition

Sunday 26th April, 12-3pm


Take a 3D virtual tour of our previous wedding exhibition: Thainstone Wedding Exhibition

Award-winning venue

In November 2018, Thainstone House was thrilled to be awarded Wedding Venue of the Year for the Aberdeen & Grampian Region at the Scottish VOWS Awards. 

The VOWS Awards recognise companies within the Scottish wedding industry that deliver customer service of the highest standard. Suppliers like ourselves must receive at least 10 nominations from different wedding parties to be shortlisted, so a huge thank you to all the brides and grooms who voted for us. 


The ceremony

The Green Lady Restaurant (up to 100 guests)

The Green Lady restaurant is a long room with Wedgewood green walls, grand paintings and huge windows drawing in the natural light from the parkland. It's well suited to a long aisle for that dramatic entrance.


Ballroom (150 guests) 

The Ballroom is a grand room and suited to those with a large number of friends and family sharing their big day.

An outdoor service can be conducted on the lawns in the summer months, which is always weather permitting - please ask for details.



Thainstone House has relationships with many wedding suppliers, ranging from car hire to wedding cake experts. 

Room decorations are one of the most common requirements we are asked to assist with and we can recommend suppliers to help with table décor, chair covers and bespoke room décor. 

We often host wedding fairs and open days throughout the year where we welcome these suppliers along, a great chance for you to discuss options with them.

For details on preferred suppliers then contact us on 01467 621643 or email:


There's still time to say 'I do!'

Last minute weddings are just as fun! Below you'll find a selection of available wedding dates for 2019 and 2020.


April: Saturday 4th, Friday 17th

May: Friday 22nd, Saturday 30th

June: Saturday 6th, Saturday 20th

July: Saturday 4th, Saturday 18th


Have a date in mind? Give us a call and we'll see what we can arrange for you.

We endeavour to keep this page up to date with weekend dates that come available. For any midweek dates you are interested in please contact us on 01467 621643 or email:

Private hire for a personal touch

Already a unique wedding venue, private hire of Thainstone House offers a bespoke intimacy. If you’re looking to create a personal touch, exclusive use ensures you can make this grand mansion house your own on your special day.

An exclusive use wedding at Thainstone House means complete privacy. You’re free to use any area within the house as part of your celebrations, and doors are closed to any other guests for the duration of your wedding.

Bridal parties who wish to take over Thainstone House exclusively will also receive use of all bedrooms at special accommodation rates. So you can rest assured your guests are comfortable, and focus on you.

Exclusive use is guaranteed by a venue hire charge covering the period from 11am on your wedding day until 11am the following day. Exclusive weddings are subject to availability and special terms apply.

Please contact our wedding co-ordinator in the first instance:

An idyllic setting

Thainstone House is surrounded with idyllic parkland and woodland and right from the main entrance, there's a feeling of space and tranquility. 

The parkland and manicured gardens make Thainstone House a wedding contender for any bride looking for a traditional and grand house, with plenty of room for an outside ceremony or bucks fizz and canapés on the lawn.

Parking is ample and free of charge, meaning guests can arrive stress free with ample time and space for a quiet stroll in the parkland.  


Wedding room capacities and guest numbers at Thainstone House are as follows:

The Drawing Room

Suitable for intimate wedding breakfast


The Lairds Room

Suitable for intimate wedding breakfast


The Green Lady Restaurant

Perfect for ceremonies


The Ballroom

Grand ceremony affairs and banquets

150 200

We have had the pleasure to share some amazing memories with brides and grooms from all over the North East of Scotland and beyond. Some of our happy couples have allowed us to share their day with you:


Victoria and Paul - May 2018

Victoria And Paul 1  

"Team Thainstone went above and beyond and really gave us such a special day that we will treasure forever. We felt complete trust in Emma and knew that we could rely on her to keep us right and check things were in order. We are eternally grateful."


Abbie and David - March 2018

Abbie And David 1

"Our day was just perfect! Carla and Emma couldn’t have been more helpful in the run up to the wedding. The hotel itself is just beautiful. We couldnt fault anything and all of the staff at Thainstone made it that way from start to finish. Thanks so much!"


Natalie and Calum - April 2018

Natalie And Calum 1

"The staff were incredible and nothing was a bother or hassle for them! The food... Faultless and absolutely amazing! We truly are so happy we chose Thainstone House Hotel for our wedding, it was just perfect from start to finish! Thank you thank you thank you."


Martin and Leanne - December 2017

Martin And Leanne 1

"The food was mouthwateringly good and everyone helped to make it the best day ever. All I can say is it was all so perfect and thank you for everything."


Robert and Alison - October 2017

Robert And Alison 1

"We can honestly say we had the best day of our lives. Nothing was too much of an ask for the staff and because of them everything ran like clockwork. The venue, staff, rooms, service and food was amazing. Thanks again Team Thainstone!"




Take a 3D virtual tour of our previous wedding exhibition:

Contact Us

Thainstone House
Scotland, UK
AB51 5NT